Appearances Part 2

 Appearances Part 2

Appearances are Deceiving

What we see isent always all that there is. You can't see what a person is thinking and rarley can you tell for sure how they are feeling. People can hide inside themselves. They can be a sweet kind and caring seemingly happy person on the outside but harbour depression and hate on the inside. Or the other way around. It is hard to always keep this in mind. Many people are extremly good at hiding their feelings some do it their whole lives. Some keep secrets about their past until they die. How many times have you remembered  about someone who treated you "badly" and thought "maybe something awful is going on in their life" Sometimes people are inherently rude for no apparent reason sometimes there really is no reason and they really are just rude people but we can never tell for sure because we can never really know a person fully.

We judge people everyday on how they act what they wear where they work how they talk and on a million other things. Absolutley everyone does it. All I am saying is that we need to do that more objectivley and less on the spur of the moment.

Appearances are important to a certain point. To say that appearances are fleeting so I just wont try to make a good one is just as bad as someone judging you on just one meeting. If you don't put out your best self no one can see it.